Become the version of you who never settles in love again. Spicy Queen Academy is your prep work for powerful self-trust & confidence, before you ever download an app or go on a date.

Spicy Queen Academy is a 4-month transformation for the woman who keeps asking herself, “Why do I keep meeting men who look different but feel the same?”

It’s not about fixing yourself. You aren't broken.
It’s about getting to the real reason behind the pattern—so you stop repeating it.

You’re not here to chase love.
You’re here to trust yourself again.
To stop second-guessing your gut.
To feel grounded in your emotions, clear in your standards, and confident in who you are— before anyone else shows up.

Inside this program, we do the work that talk therapy and journaling couldn’t fully reach.

You’ll be guided through my Rapid Relationship Transformation™ method—a step-by-step process that helps you:

  • Heal from past relationships that left emotional residue
  • Calm your overthinking and actually feel safe in your body
  • Stop abandoning yourself when attraction shows up
  • Set higher standards—not from fear, but from self-respect

This is where you become the version of you who:

  • Doesn’t entertain mixed signals
  • Walks into a room and knows her energy speaks for itself
  • No longer questions her worth. She knows she's the prize.
  • Feels proud of how she shows up—in love, in life, and in her own skin

Whether you’re healing from a breakup, have a history of choosing emotionally unavailable men, or simply know you’re not ready to date from the same place again…

After Spicy Queen Academy  you will have the clarity, confidence, and emotional strength to start fresh—from the inside out.

Hey Queen,


The self-aware, emotionally intelligent woman who’s so done with repeating patterns that don’t match her depth.

This isn't about finding love, yet. 
This is about becoming the woman who never abandons herself in the name of it again.

Spicy Queen Academy was never meant to be a surface-level “self-love” course or another round of analyzing your ex.
It’s for the woman who’s  connected the dots—but still collapses when love enters the chat.
Who’s tired of getting strung along, staying too long, or talking herself into crumbs.

You don’t need another mindset shift.
You need to feel safe in your own body.
Clear in your boundaries.
Proud of the way you show up—especially when no one’s watching.

This is where you stop shrinking for connection and start raising your standards without apology.

If you’re at the part of your journey where you know you’re not here to settle—not in love, not in life, and definitely not with yourself...

Welcome Home!

 

Inside Spicy Queen Academy, we don’t just talk about patterns—we change the way your body responds to love, desire, and connection.

This is where you’ll learn how to stop confusing anxiety with intuition—
and finally feel the difference between a green flag and a trauma bond.

Here’s what becomes possible when you’re no longer dating from the wound:

✦ You stop spiraling after texts and start trusting the signals your body is giving you—without needing outside validation.

✦ You recognize emotional unavailability in the first five minutes, not five months—and walk away without the guilt.

✦ You stop making excuses for red flags and start honoring your gut the first time it whispers, “this isn’t right.”

✦ You no longer feel shame about that one relationship you can’t seem to let go of—because now you understand how to release the pain instead of reliving it.

✦ You know exactly when to speak up, set a boundary, or walk away—without second-guessing if you’re “too much.”

✦ You stop choosing from the checklist and start choosing from your truth—feeling proud of your standards, not apologetic for them.

The next time you choose a man, you're not choosing love to feel whole.
You're choosing it from a place of wholeness.

This isn’t about thinking your way into healing.
It’s about coming home to your body, raising your standards, and never again confusing emotional chaos with connection.

Inside Spicy Queen Academy, we’ll walk through a step-by-step process to help you shift from performing confidence to actually feeling it—and living it.

Here’s what we’ll work on together:

✦ Reconnecting With Your Body’s Wisdom
You’ll stop overriding the signs.
That knot in your stomach when he cancels? That shrinking feeling when you betray your own needs?
Your body’s been trying to speak to you all along. You'll learn how to hear it—and trust it.


✦ Regulating Your Nervous System in Real Time
For the spirals, the shutdowns, the moments where your emotions feel bigger than your body.
You’ll learn how to bring yourself back to calm—without waiting for someone else to fix it. Minutes, not days.


✦ Rewiring the Beliefs That Keep You Stuck
You’ll release the lies like: “Maybe this is the best I can get.”
“Maybe I am too much.”
Instead, we’ll anchor in the truth that makes higher standards feel non-negotiable—not terrifying.


✦ Translating Confidence Into Action
Walking away when it’s not aligned. Speaking your truth without spiraling. Choosing to be seen—without shrinking.


✦ Building Unshakeable Self-Trust
No more outsourcing decisions. No more second-guessing what your gut already knows.

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What my clients are saying:

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Investment Options

Pay in Full

$2,500

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  • Bimonthly Group Coaching (value: $1,000)
  •  Community Support
    (value: unmatched)
  • Access to a full training portal of materials (value: $3,000+)
  • Plus, unlock a bonus 45-minute private call with Shilpa when you pay in full
    (value: $799)

    TOTAL VALUE: $4,500+ but today only

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Payment Plan

$625

4 monthly payments

  • Bimonthly Group Coaching (value: $1,000)
  •  Community Support
    (value: unmatched)
  • Access to a full training portal of materials (value: $3,000+)

TOTAL VALUE: $4,000+ but today only

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Inside Spicy Queen Academy you get:

→ 💖 The Feminine Fire Process™ Framework ($10,000 value) A transformative 4-month journey (16 weeks) to deeply transform your relationship with yourself so you never accept less than you deserve again.  Reconnecting with your body wisdom, rewiring limiting beliefs, mastering emotional intelligence, and teaching you how to embody your authentic feminine energy in all areas of life.

→ 🔥 Bi-Monthly Hot Seat Coaching Calls for 4 Months ($7,200 value) Twice-monthly live coaching to work through your specific patterns, triggers, and challenges as they arise. Get personalized guidance to break through blocks

→ 📱 Community Support & Connection ($3,200 value) Four full months of private Telegram community for daily support, connection, and accountability with like-minded women who are committed to their growth. Share wins, ask questions, and build relationships that support your journey.

→ 🧘‍♀️ Advanced Embodiment Practices Library ($3,500 value) A comprehensive collection of somatic practices, guided visualizations, and movement exercises specifically designed to release old protection patterns, build unshakeable self-trust, and embody your natural feminine magnetism from the inside out.

 

You’ve built a beautiful life.
You’re the strong one. The one your friends call when their world is falling apart.
You’ve achieved, created, led—and you’ve done it all while carrying a heart that loves deeply and generously.

But when it comes to love?

There’s still a part of you that fears repeating the past.
Not because you haven’t grown—but because, deep down, your body still flinches at the thought of softening.
Because even with all your success, part of you still wonders:
“Can I really trust myself in love?”

You’re not here to be rescued.
You’re here to feel steady in your emotions, proud of your boundaries, and safe being fully seen.
To stop filtering your truth to be more palatable.
To stop outsourcing your worth to men who can’t meet you where you are.

You’ve already done the work.
Now, it’s time to let that work land in your body.
To feel the kind of self-love that doesn’t have to be performed.
To raise your standards—not as a wall, but as an invitation.

Spicy Queen Academy is where that shift begins.

Where you move from anxious to anchored.
From proving to receiving.
From overthinking to owning your energy.

👑 Who you become inside Spicy Queen Academy isn’t just confident—it’s unshakable.

Here’s what becomes your new normal:

— You stop shutting down when a good man shows up—because now, receiving love doesn’t feel unsafe.

— Dating no longer gives you anxiety because you’re not performing, proving, or chasing. You trust yourself.

— You naturally attract emotionally available men who want commitment because your standards aren’t up for debate anymore.

— You handle hard conversations without collapsing—clear, calm, and rooted in self-respect.

— The loop of getting back with men who haven’t changed? Fully broken.

This isn’t just healing.
It’s becoming the woman who sets the standard.
For how she’s treated. For how she loves. And for how deeply she trusts herself.

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You'll also get access to:

You're The Prize
(value: $999)

Transform from asking 'what's wrong with me?' and 'am I too much?' to becoming the confident queen he can't resist.

Love Pattern Reset
(value: $222)

5 Days To Break The Love Patterns That Keep You Stuck, Stressed, and Second-Guessing.

Dating Red Flags
(value: $77)

Say "Hell Yes" to Healthy Relationships.

Situationship Detox

If you're finding yourself in a constant cycle of situationships but can never seem to land someone perfect for you... this is for you.

Still Not Sure You're Ready? Let's Talk About It 👑

I know you want to join, but the voices in your head are loud...

"Am I really ready to do this deep work?" "What if I open my heart and get hurt again?" "Will I be able to actually change my patterns this time?" "Is it worth investing in myself when I'm not even dating?" "Will other women understand what I'm going through?"

I've been exactly where you are. That fear of being vulnerable, of trying something new, of trusting yourself again - I get it. But here's what I know: Creating lasting change in love is a CHOICE.

The healing you want is your choice. The patterns you want to break are your choice. The kind of love you want to create is your choice. The relationship you want to have with yourself is your choice.

There's a reason some women keep accepting less while others create soul-deep love - they don't wait until they're "ready," they decide they deserve more and take action.

My Story:

I made a choice at 31, after my divorce from a 10-year relationship, that I wasn't going to let fear dictate my love story anymore.

I made a choice after a string of relationships with men who couldn't commit, who didn't meet my standards, that I deserved more - even when trusting myself felt impossible.

I made a choice to be honest about what I really wanted - marriage, family, deep love - even when it felt safer to pretend I was "fine" being alone.

And because I chose myself every single day, fought the urge to run when good love showed up, and did the deep work to heal...I now have the kind of marriage that gets richer and more connected with time. (Yes, we got married just 10 months after meeting, and no, I've never been more sure of anything.)

But this journey wasn't just about finding love - it was about finding myself. From struggling with depression and anxiety to feeling liberated from others' expectations. From losing my reputation and family relationships after divorce to creating a community that loves the real me. From doubting if I'd ever trust myself again to becoming braver than I've ever been.

I created Spicy Queen Academy because I know exactly what it feels like to:

  • Question everything about yourself after heartbreak
  • Wonder if you'll ever trust your judgment about men again
  • Feel like you should just "give up" on deep love
  • Want to run the moment something good shows up
  • Be terrified of repeating past patterns

But I also know what's possible when you:

  • Choose yourself consistently
  • Do the deep inner work
  • Face your fears instead of letting them run you
  • Allow yourself to receive real love

This is your invite to say YES to loving yourself deeply and committing to creating something different in love.

I've got your back every step of the way.
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Frequently Asked Questions

You don’t need to wait for rock bottom.
You’re allowed to choose something different now.
Something softer. Stronger. Safer.

The version of you you’ve been waiting to become?
She’s not months or years away.
She’s one decision away.

This isn’t about love being the goal.
It’s about you becoming the woman who knows  she’s the prize.