Become the woman who loves herself so deeply that you go from accepting breadcrumbs in relationships to naturally walking away from anything less than what you deserve.
What is Spicy Queen Academy?
Spicy Queen Academy is a 5-month program that teaches you how to love yourself so deeply that choosing yourself becomes effortless. No more staying in relationships that drain you because you're afraid of being alone. No more making excuses for men who won't commit. No more accepting less than you deserve because you don't fully believe you're worthy of more. No more ignoring red flags because you're hoping things will change.
Whether you're healing after heartbreak, tired of taking back men who can't meet your needs, or stuck in cycles with men who won't commit - this is where you learn what real self-love looks like in action. Not just the kind you post about on Instagram, but the kind that has you naturally walking away from situations that don't serve you, trusting your gut the first time it speaks, and feeling completely at peace with choosing yourself.

I created Spicy Queen Academy for women who are ready to create real, lasting love by first falling deeply in love with themselves.
But maybe right now you're protecting yourself from getting hurt again. You stay busy with work, fill your calendar with plans, and tell yourself you're "focusing on you" - when really, you're afraid to open your heart again.
You keep accepting less than you deserve in relationships. Whether it's taking back an ex who hasn't actually changed, staying in situations that drain you, or getting strung along by men who won't commit - you know this isn't what real love looks like.
Your heart knows you're capable of deep love, but your patterns keep you stuck. You've done therapy, read the books, and understand your patterns - but understanding them isn't enough to break them. You're ready to trust yourself again and create something different.
This Program Will Help You...
✦ Transform from overthinking your actions & his intentions in relationships to trusting yourself completely
✦ Finally heal the patterns that keep you choosing and chasing unavailable men
✦ Stop second-guessing your worth when someone ghosts or breadcrumbs you
✦ Release the pressuring fears ('I'm too old,' 'I'm running out of time,' 'No one better will come along') that keep you accepting crumbs from men
✦ Know exactly what you want in love (and have the confidence to ask for it)
✦ Turn your relationship anxiety into unshakeable self-trust
✦ Feel at peace with being single while remaining open to real love
✦ Become the woman who naturally attracts better situations because she won't accept anything less

Where You Are Right Now (And Why It's Time For Change) 👑
You're successful in every other area of your life, but when it comes to love:
- You're terrified of repeating past relationship patterns, but can't seem to break the cycle of choosing men who can't fully show up for you
- When a good man actually shows up, you either pick him apart looking for flaws or get so anxious about "messing it up" that you push him away
- You've convinced yourself it's easier to stay single than risk opening your heart again (even though deep down you long for real connection)
- You're tired of having the same conversations with your friends about why you're still talking to someone who "needs time" or "isn't ready for anything serious yet"
- You keep getting dragged along in situationships where he does just enough to keep you hoping (but never enough to actually commit)
- You find yourself making excuses for men's behavior: "he's just busy with work" or "he's going through a lot right now"
And the most painful part? Each time you ignore your gut, stay too long, or take someone back who hasn't changed, you lose a little more trust in yourself.
Does any of this feel familiar? Then keep reading, Queen, because there's a different way...

What We'll Work On Together Inside Spicy Queen Academy:
✦ Deep Somatic Reconnection
Learn how to reconnect with your body and recognize the signals it’s been sending all along. From spotting red flags to knowing when someone is truly worth your energy, you’ll embody unshakable clarity and confidence in every decision.
✦ Healing & Rewiring Your Beliefs
Let go of false narratives born from past relationships, childhood wounds, and life’s challenges. You’re not broken—you’ve just been carrying beliefs that no longer serve you. You’ll anchor new beliefs that open the door to love.
✦ Energetics of Self-Alignment
Go beyond theory with actionable tools to translate your newfound confidence and alignment into everyday bravery—whether it’s walking away from an unhealthy situation or stepping boldly into the love you deserve.
✦ Unshakeable Self-Trust
From overthinking to trusting your gut, you’ll master the art of listening to and believing in yourself. Self-doubt will no longer have the final say; you’ll make decisions rooted in your worth and intuition.
✦ Effortless Boundaries & Magnetism
Learn to say no without guilt and yes without hesitation. With your boundaries firmly in place, you’ll find yourself naturally attracting people who respect and value all of you.
This Program Is for You If:
- You're ready to do the deep inner work required for lasting change in love
- You've hit your breaking point with repeating the same painful patterns
- You're tired of settling for less and ready to create something different
- You’re ready to break free from relationships that drain you or leave you questioning your worth & sanity
- You’re committed to healing old wounds, creating healthier beliefs about love, and showing up fully for this transformative work.
- You want to heal instead of jumping into another relationship
- You value expert guidance and are ready to fully commit to your growth
- You're open to looking at your patterns honestly and taking responsibility
- You want to be part of a community of women who are choosing themselves first
This Program Is Not for You If:
- You’re not ready to invest time, energy, or effort into your personal growth.
- You’re unwilling to take responsibility for your patterns and decisions.
- You’re looking for a quick fix rather than lasting transformation.
- You prefer to stay in your comfort zone rather than face hard truths.
- You want someone to tell you exactly what to do instead of learning to trust yourself
- You're not willing to feel uncomfortable emotions as you grow
- You’re not open to learning and applying new tools and strategies.
- You’re not interested in building trust and connection with other community members.
REAL OUTCOMES YOU'LL EXPERIENCE: 👑
✓ When a man shows inconsistent behavior, you'll easily walk away instead of making excuses for him
✓ You'll stop getting triggered when good men show up (and actually allow yourself to receive love)
✓ Dating will feel exciting instead of anxiety-inducing because you'll trust yourself completely
✓ You'll naturally attract better situations because you won't accept anything less
✓ You'll handle difficult conversations with confidence instead of avoiding them because of confusion or fear
✓ The cycle of taking back exes who haven't changed will be completely broken
✓ You'll feel genuinely happy for friends in relationships instead of wondering "why not me?”

Still Not Sure You're Ready? Let's Talk About It 👑
I know you want to join, but the voices in your head are loud...
"Am I really ready to do this deep work?" "What if I open my heart and get hurt again?" "Will I be able to actually change my patterns this time?" "Is it worth investing in myself when I'm not even dating?" "Will other women understand what I'm going through?"
I've been exactly where you are. That fear of being vulnerable, of trying something new, of trusting yourself again - I get it. But here's what I know: Creating lasting change in love is a CHOICE.
The healing you want is your choice. The patterns you want to break are your choice. The kind of love you want to create is your choice. The relationship you want to have with yourself is your choice.
There's a reason some women keep accepting less while others create soul-deep love - they don't wait until they're "ready," they decide they deserve more and take action.

My story:
I made a choice at 31, after my divorce from a 10-year relationship, that I wasn't going to let fear dictate my love story anymore.
I made a choice after a string of relationships with men who couldn't commit, who didn't meet my standards, that I deserved more - even when trusting myself felt impossible.
I made a choice to be honest about what I really wanted - marriage, family, deep love - even when it felt safer to pretend I was "fine" being alone.
And because I chose myself every single day, fought the urge to run when good love showed up, and did the deep work to heal...I now have the kind of marriage that gets richer and more connected with time. (Yes, we got married just 10 months after meeting, and no, I've never been more sure of anything.)
But this journey wasn't just about finding love - it was about finding myself. From struggling with depression and anxiety to feeling liberated from others' expectations. From losing my reputation and family relationships after divorce to creating a community that loves the real me. From doubting if I'd ever trust myself again to becoming braver than I've ever been.
I created Spicy Queen Academy because I know exactly what it feels like to:
- Question everything about yourself after heartbreak
- Wonder if you'll ever trust your judgment about men again
- Feel like you should just "give up" on deep love
- Want to run the moment something good shows up
- Be terrified of repeating past patterns
But I also know what's possible when you:
- Choose yourself consistently
- Do the deep inner work
- Face your fears instead of letting them run you
- Allow yourself to receive real love
This is your invite to say YES to loving yourself deeply and committing to creating something different in love - I've got your back every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions
Q: I'm not dating right now. Should I wait?
A: Actually, this is the perfect time. You'll learn to love yourself and trust your judgment before you're emotionally invested in someone new.
Q: I've done therapy - how is this different?
A: While therapy helps you understand your patterns, we focus on actually changing them through practical tools, somatic practices, and real-world exercises. Plus, you get real-time support as you navigate relationships.
Q: What if I'm still healing from a breakup?
A: As long as you're not in active crisis and are ready to do the work, this program will help you heal properly so you don't carry old wounds into new relationships.
Q: How much time do I need to commit?
A: Plan for 2-3 hours per week including our calls, community engagement, and implementation work. The program is designed for busy women.
Q: Will I find my soulhusband in this program?
A: This program isn't about finding him - it's about becoming the woman who naturally attracts better relationships because she loves herself deeply. When you're ready to actively date, our Attract Your Soulhusband program will guide you through that journey.
Q: What kind of support do I get?
A: You'll get bi-monthly group coaching calls, community support, and access to all program materials. I'm there to support you throughout your journey.