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Magnetic Femme Glow-Up

A 4-Day Live Experience for High-Achieving Women Who Are Done Chasing, Managing, and Doing All the Work in Love

You’re texting first.
Suggesting where to meet because he won’t pick a place.
Asking all the questions to keep the conversation going.
Managing his emotions.
Moving things forward because if you don’t… nothing happens.

And you’re annoyed.

Frustrated that he won’t lead.
Irritated that you have to ask for help.
Exhausted from carrying every interaction while craving real effort, real desire, real pursuit.

You don’t even want much.

You don't even ask for much - just some leading energy. Real effort (not the mediocre BS you've been settling for). To feel desired and chosen.

You're the successful woman who has everything figured out except this: Why do you have to work so hard for love?

Here's what's actually happening: Your nervous system is wired to over-function in relationships. You reject help before men can disappoint you. You feel guilty receiving anything without giving something back.

The brutal result? You're blocking the very thing that creates attraction - your receptive feminine energy. Men aren't magnetically drawn to you because you're doing their job for them. You've become the "safe choice" instead of the woman who makes their heart race and their primal instincts kick in to win you over.

You know this is you if:

âś— You've learned to expect disappointment when men offer help or show up so you reject it before they can let you down
âś— You suggest the restaurant, plan the date, bring up "where is this going" conversations because deep down you believe if you don't take control, it won't happen.
âś— You haven't had good sex in months (or he stopped initiating entirely) because your masculine energy killed the polarity
âś— You attract "potential" guys who like the idea of you but never fully commit or step up as leaders
âś— You feel guilty when men pay, offer help, or do nice things because you immediately think "what do I owe him?"
âś— You get moody and bitchy when you're dating or in relationships because you can't ask for what you need, so you try to manage everything yourself while secretly craving real connection
✗ You analyze every text for 20 minutes before responding because you're afraid of seeming too eager or not interested enough
âś— You're successful everywhere else but completely confused why love feels so hard

Right now, every day you over-function is another day you:

  • Repel quality men who want to lead (they see you don't need them)
  • Attract men who want you to mother them (they see you will)
  • Train your current partner that your needs don't matter
  • Wire your nervous system deeper into masculine survival mode
  • Miss opportunities with men who would pursue you if you'd let them

The longer you wait to fix this, the harder it becomes to undo these patterns.

I have an exact system that reprograms your nervous system from "over-functioning survival mode" to "magnetic feminine receptivity" .

A step-by-step method that I've used with  women to completely flip their relationship dynamics.

This is a 4-day live experience designed to help your body feel what it’s like to stop chasing, stop managing, and stop over-functioning  without spiraling.

 

The Experience

  • Day 1 — Live Call
    Understand why you always end up doing the most and what actually changes when you don’t.

    Day 2 — Telegram Integration
    Practice pulling back without overthinking, second-guessing, or abandoning yourself.

    Day 3 — Live Call
    Learn how to stop texting first and nagging a man without spiraling or feeling like you’re losing control.

    Day 4 — Live Call
    Learn how to receive attention, effort, and care without guilt, tension, or needing to give something back.

    Dates: January 14, 15, 16, 19
    All calls will be recorded and you will receive the replay but I do encourage you to come live to get the most out of it!

You'll stop analyzing every interaction and feel calm in your feminine energy

You'll start receiving compliments, offers of help, and attention without reciprocating

Men will begin pursuing you with thoughtful intention (your partner will start initiating again)

You'll feel confident letting men lead without feeling powerless

 ALL OF THIS for less than what you spend on a single dinner date that you probably planned yourself.

Ready to stop chasing and start being chased?

This isn't about finding "the one" - it's about becoming the woman quality men fight to keep.

 

-H

This work as you’ve mented Shilpa, is truly deep & transformational. For me, this work goes beyond about attracting men or anything in to my life, in fact right now I have no desire for it, my focus has completely shifted in the last few weeks, I finally heard the whisper in my heart that has been telling me to sit still in solitude and know who I truly am. I have been ignoring this voice for many years thinking I can circumvent the processThe real work for me is one of going back to the essence of me, who I was before all this programming, layers of social conditioning and BS I’ve piled on over the years. @Shilpa, you have opened my eyes in so many ways that I can’t even write down here, my journal is about to get full

-P

I had what could be called "bad news" this week. At first I was upset. Over the next few days, I started to feel blissful, more of a knowing that everything would be taken care of. ❤️❤️❤️ -P

-JB

What I have realized …and ugh this is a win but it also feels disappointing….is that I’ve realized I have a fear that the relationship isn’t going to truly be as good as it is in my mind. There is/was a part of me that thinks it could never live up to the wonderfulness I have in my head. And so I’m acknowledging that and giving myself the space to fulling feel all of it. The truth that it really will be that good (hello our intuition knows), the disappointment I’ve held myself back. All the things. Grateful for this beautiful space to share.

-LL

My anxiety is no longer there Thank you so much And men coming back to me

-A

Yes! I can definitely say am feeling much better now than when I started this journey. I keep hearing your voice about being present in the moment which showed a big difference in my relationship because I have been thinking and confused about leaving this relationship and probably that stuck state in my mind was sensed by my husband. But when I started being more present, I feel like he is also able to be present and more involved. I know I need more work here to be there, but this is a win.

HN

This has been quite a journey for me. Shilpa thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have poured your heart and soul in here, I felt it and that’s what drew me to you to begin with. You are an amazing human being, so authentic and so transparent. I hope we will get together in another platform soon!