This class is for you if:

You're one of the most capable, self-aware, emotionally intelligent women you know. You make big decisions. You handle difficult conversations. People come to YOU when they need advice but when it comes to a man you want? Suddenly, you're questioning everything.

You want more consistency, but you don't bring it up because you don't want to seem needy.

You want to know where things are going, but you convince yourself to be patient because you don't want to pressure him.

Something he said hurt you, but instead of telling him, you say, "It's fine" and make excuses for it.

You rehearse conversations seventeen times, trying to find the perfect words that won't make him defensive or pull away.

And when you finally do speak up, you've held so much in that it comes out as frustration, criticism, or a 20-minute explanation of everything he's doing wrong.

• Here's what you don't realize.

  The very things you think you need to do to keep him interested are pushing him away.

  You want him to know you deeply, but you're hiding what you really feel.

  You want him to open up, but you're so afraid of his response that you're trying to control the conversation before it even happens.

  You want to discover whether he's capable of giving you the love you desire, but you're so focused on not losing him that you keep adjusting yourself to whatever he's willing to give.

  This is how you abandon yourself around men, which pushes the right man further away.

   

You're thinking WTF is going on? I'm putting so much effort in. Why isn't it working?

You want to tell him what you need without rehearsing it seventeen times first. You want to have standards without wondering if they are “too high.” You want to stop reopening that text for the 19th time to see if he responded and start trusting that he will & feel peace even if he doesn't. You want to be able to lean on a man without secretly worrying everything will fall apart if you stop carrying it.

And you want a man to actually listen, see you, and wholeheartedly choose you. 

I have helped over 300 women go from attracting noncommittal and avoidant men, being ghosted, disrespected and stuck in situationships, to being pursued, prioritized, deeply understood and treated like a queen by men who make their intentions clear.

Women who wondered if the love they wanted even existed are in healthy relationships, engaged and getting married.

What you will walk away with in 90 minutes

MEET YOUR MENTOR

Shilpa Cacho

Love & Intimacy Mentor

I went from signing my divorce papers to marrying the love of my life 19 months later. What changed was one conversation. I said what was true, from a body that believed it all the way down, and he said “I’m in.”

My background is in psychology, occupational therapy, nervous system and somatic work, and feminine embodiment, so this goes deeper than dating scripts. Now I help high achieving women stay rooted in their worth and create love that feels as extraordinary as the life they have built.

I am also a wife and a mother.

In their own words

Real messages from women who have done this work with me.

“But I have already tried everything, so why would this work for me?”

If you have done the therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts and tried the dating advice, and you are still attracting the same emotionally unavailable men, this is the class to be in.

I am going to show you the piece all of that inner work never taught you: how to use your healing when you are face to face with a man you want.