Spicy Queen Academy

Stop settling, move on from heartbreak & situationships and walk away as the most powerful version of you, ready to date like YOU’RE THE PRIZE

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 You can only outrun your patterns for so long.

At some point, every strong, self-aware woman hits that moment where the next love story can’t begin until she changes.

We can’t achieve this by trying harder.
Not by numbing, journaling, or talking in circles either.

But by finally shifting the patterns that live in her body, the ones that pull her toward the same men, the same dynamics, the same heartbreak.

If you feel that moment arriving…
You’re in exactly the right place.

Living in survival mode is both exhausting and ineffective, and learning how to soften into the most magnetic, emotionally grounded, and fully expressed version of you where love, pleasure, and devotion can be your new normal.

You don’t need another “quick fix.” You don’t need more information, mindset hacks, or another round of analyzing why the last man couldn’t meet you.

You need something deeper:

A place where your body finally feels safe, here your nervous system stops bracing and where your patterns no longer run the show.

It’s not about fixing you. You aren't broken.

It’s about finally understanding the real reason you repeat certain patterns and rewiring them at the root of the issue, so you don’t have to fight yourself anymore. 

You’re not here to chase love.

You’re here to trust yourself again. 

Ever wonder what it  feels like to be grounded, emotionally steady, and deeply proud of the woman you’re becoming? It feels like anything is possible, and deep love is right on the other side of it. 

Step Into Your Next Chapter, Join the Academy

Inside this program, we go well beyond the reach of talk therapy and journaling. 

The Spicy Queen™ method is a step-by-step process where you’ll reconnect to your feminine essence, shift survival-based patterns, and become magnetic to the kind of love you’ve always desired and it starts within you, first.

Here’s how we get there: 

✔ Heal the residue from past relationships

✔ Calm overthinking so your body actually feels safe

✔ Stop abandoning yourself when chemistry appears

✔ Set standards from self-respect, not fear

✔ Feel confident, magnetic, and emotionally anchored

This is where survival mode steps aside… and your feminine power takes the lead.

 SQA graduates  elevate to become the version of themselves who:

✔Ignore mixed signals

✔Walks into a room and her presence does the speaking

✔ Knows she is the prize without convincing herself

✔Trusts her body, not anxiety

✔Feels proud of how she shows up in love, in life, and in her own skin

Whether you're healing from a breakup, attempting to break free from a pattern of considering emotionally unavailable men, or just know you're not available for dating from survival mode anymore, Spicy Queen Academy is where your new story begins.

If You’re Reading This, You’re Ready. Apply Now

What Makes Spicy Queen Academy Different From Other Dating Coaching Programs (Other than the course being taught by yours truly…!) This is not just learning about patterns. In module one, we are changing the way your body responds to:

• love
• desire
• attention
• connection
• conflict
• boundaries

Change happens in your love life when you finally learn

➜ The difference between anxiety and intuition (You’ll never confuse the two again. Whew!)

➜ How to recognize emotional unavailability in minutes, instead of months

➜ How to stop spiraling and make decisions from clarity, not fear

➜ How to trust yourself enough to set boundaries without guilt

➜ How to release attachment instead of reliving it

Inside Spicy Queen Academy, we don’t just talk about patterns, you change the way your body responds to love, desire, and connection.This course is where you’ll learn how to stop confusing anxiety with intuition and finally feel the difference between a green flag and a trauma bond.

Here’s what we accomplish together: 

4. Reconnecting With Your Body’s Wisdom.
    Start trusting the signals your body is giving you without needing outside validation.
5. Real-Time Nervous System Regulation. 
   You recognize emotional unavailability in five minutes, not five months, and walk away without the guilt
6. Rewiring Limiting Relationship Beliefs.
   You learn how to stop making excuses for red flags and start honoring your gut the first time it whispers, “this isn’t right.”
7. Embodying Feminine Energetics
   You no longer feel shame about that one relationship you can’t seem to let go of because now you understand how to release the pain instead of reliving it over and over.
8. Building Unshakeable Self-Trust
   You know exactly when to speak up, set a boundary, or walk away without second-guessing if you’re “too much.”

You’re ready to stop choosing from the checklist and start choosing from your truth feeling proud of your standards, not apologetic for them.

How We Get This Handled (once and for all!): 

💖 The Spicy Queen Method™ Framework ($10,000 value)
A step-by-step transformation to rebuild self-trust, feminine embodiment, emotional strength, and magnetic energy.

🔥 Hot Seat Coaching Calls for 90 days($7,200 value)
Live weekly coaching to work through your exact patterns as they arise and break through blocks

📱 Telegram Community ($1,600 value)
Daily touchpoints, support, and accountability with women who are rising alongside you. When we share wins, a new point of view gets unlocked.

🧘‍♀️ Embodiment Practice Library ($1,750 value)
Somatic tools, visualizations, and movement practices to release old patterns and access your natural magnetism.
The next time you choose a man, you're not choosing love to feel whole.

You're choosing it from a place of wholeness.

What We'll Work On Together Inside Spicy Queen Academy:

✦ Deep Somatic Reconnection
Learn how to reconnect with your body and recognize the signals it’s been sending all along. From spotting red flags to knowing when someone is truly worth your energy, you’ll embody unshakable clarity and confidence in every decision.

✦ Healing & Rewiring Your Beliefs
Let go of false narratives born from past relationships, childhood wounds, and life’s challenges. You’re not broken, you’ve just been carrying beliefs that no longer serve you. You’ll anchor new beliefs that open the door to love.

✦ Energetics of Self-Alignment
Go beyond theory with actionable tools to translate your newfound confidence and alignment into everyday bravery—whether it’s walking away from an unhealthy situation or stepping boldly into the love you deserve.

✦ Unshakeable Self-Trust
From overthinking to trusting your gut, you’ll master the art of listening to and believing in yourself. Self-doubt will no longer have the final say; you’ll make decisions rooted in your worth and intuition.

✦ Effortless Boundaries & Magnetism
Learn to say no without guilt and yes without hesitation. With your boundaries firmly in place, you’ll find yourself naturally attracting people who respect and value all of you.

👑 Who you become inside Spicy Queen Academy isn’t just confident, it’s unshakeable.

You’re not here to be rescued.

You’re here to feel steady in your emotions, proud of your boundaries, and safe being fully seen.

To stop filtering your truth to be more palatable.

To stop outsourcing your worth to men who can’t meet you where you are.

You’ve already done the work.

Now, it’s time to let that work land in your body.
To feel the kind of self-love that doesn’t have to be performed.

To raise your standards, not as a wall, but as an invitation.

Spicy Queen Academy is where that shift begins.

Still Not Sure You're Ready? Let's Talk About It 👑

I know you want to join, but the voices in your head are loud...

"Am I really ready to do this deep work?" "What if I open my heart and get hurt again?" "Will I be able to actually change my patterns this time?" "Is it worth investing in myself when I'm not even dating?" "Will other women understand what I'm going through?"

I've been exactly where you are. That fear of being vulnerable, of trying something new, of trusting yourself again - I get it. But here's what I know: Creating lasting change in love is a CHOICE.

The healing you want is your choice. The patterns you want to break are your choice. The kind of love you want to create is your choice. The relationship you want to have with yourself is your choice.

There's a reason some women keep accepting less while others create soul-deep love - they don't wait until they're "ready," they decide they deserve more and take action.

My story:

I made a choice at 31, after my divorce from a 10-year relationship, that I wasn't going to let fear dictate my love story anymore.

I made a choice after a string of relationships with men who couldn't commit, who didn't meet my standards, that I deserved more - even when trusting myself felt impossible.

I made a choice to be honest about what I really wanted - marriage, family, deep love - even when it felt safer to pretend I was "fine" being alone.

And because I chose myself every single day, fought the urge to run when good love showed up, and did the deep work to heal...I now have the kind of marriage that gets richer and more connected with time. (Yes, we got married just 10 months after meeting, and no, I've never been more sure of anything.)

But this journey wasn't just about finding love - it was about finding myself. From struggling with depression and anxiety to feeling liberated from others' expectations. From losing my reputation and family relationships after divorce to creating a community that loves the real me. From doubting if I'd ever trust myself again to becoming braver than I've ever been.

I created Spicy Queen Academy because I know exactly what it feels like to:

• Question everything about yourself after heartbreak
• Wonder if you'll ever trust your judgment about men again
• Feel like you should just "give up" on deep love
• Want to run the moment something good shows up
• Be terrified of repeating past patterns

But I also know what's possible when you:

• Choose yourself consistently
• Do the deep inner work
• Face your fears instead of letting them run you
• Allow yourself to receive real love

This is your invite to say YES to loving yourself deeply and committing to creating something different in love - I've got your back every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I'm not dating right now. Should I wait?
A: Actually, this is the perfect time. You'll learn to love yourself and trust your judgment before you're emotionally invested in someone new.

Q: I've done therapy - how is this different?
A: While therapy helps you understand your patterns, we focus on actually changing them through practical tools, somatic practices, and real-world exercises. Plus, you get real-time support as you navigate relationships.

Q: What if I'm still healing from a breakup?
A: As long as you're not in active crisis and are ready to do the work, this program will help you heal properly so you don't carry old wounds into new relationships.

Q: How much time do I need to commit?
A: Plan for 30 minutes 4 times a week including our calls, community engagement, and implementation work. The program is designed for busy women.

Q: Will I find my soulhusband in this program?
A: This program isn't about finding him - it's about becoming the woman who naturally attracts better relationships because she loves herself deeply. When you're ready to actively date, our Attract Your Soulhusband program will guide you through that journey.

Q: What kind of support do I get?
A: You'll get group coaching calls, community support, and access to all program materials. I'm there to support you throughout your journey.