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Free live masterclass · Loved Without Losing Your Freedom

You have done the work on yourself. So why do you keep meeting good men who cannot go deeper?

The Soul Talk masterclass for single women who are done spending six months trying to figure out where they stand with a man. I will show you how to get that clarity in about a week. 90 minutes with live Q&A. (11am Eastern / 10am Central / 8am Pacific)

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  • Why the right words keep falling flat, and what he is actually responding to before you open your mouth
  • What is really happening when a man shuts down, goes quiet or pulls away, and how to get him to lean in instead
  • The one honest conversation that tells you in about a week whether he is going to give you what you want

Show up live and you get the Before the Date audio — five minutes you play while you are getting ready so you walk in grounded instead of spinning.

This class is for you if:

  • You were married, it ended, you rebuilt your life, and now you want to date again and have no idea how people even do this anymore
  • You are in your 30s or 40s, you want a marriage and a family on your timeline, and you are done with situationships
  • You have done the therapy, the courses, the books and the podcasts, and you are still sitting across from emotionally unavailable men
  • You are six months in with a man and you still cannot say what the two of you are

You might be more than one of those, and that is allowed too.

A man feels you before he ever hears you

You can have the soul deep love, the commitment, the emotional intimacy and the queen treatment you want, without losing yourself, dropping your standards, or spending another six months trying to figure out where you stand with a man.

Every dating tip you have ever been given taught you to work on the words. Your body speaks first, and he responds to that before he responds to anything you say.

In this class I will show you how to communicate from your body, so you stop speaking from fear, get clarity fast, and create the kind of connection where the right man can actually feel you and rise to meet you.

I have helped over 300 women go from attracting noncommittal and avoidant men, being ghosted, disrespected and stuck in situationships, to being pursued, prioritized, deeply understood and treated like a queen by men who make their intentions clear.

Women who wondered if the love they wanted even existed are in healthy relationships, engaged and getting married.

And you are next.

What you will walk away with in 90 minutes

You. Then him. Then a completely different way of dating.

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PART ONE

It Starts With Knowing Yourself

You cannot communicate a need you have never named. You will learn the four questions that tell you what you actually want, so you can speak your standards out loud without apologizing for a single one of them.

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PART TWO

The Myth About Men

What is actually happening when a man shuts down, gets defensive or pulls away. Most of the time nobody ever taught him how to do the thing you are asking for, so he reaches for logic, distance or silence. You will learn to communicate in a way that has the right man leaning in and rising to meet you.

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PART THREE

From Trying To Be Chosen To Choosing

You were never meant to be a candidate in your own love life. You will learn the one honest conversation that gets you clarity in about a week, so you stop handing months of your time to men who were never going to give you what you want.

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The Before The Date Audio

A five minute audio you play while you are getting ready. It settles your nervous system, brings you back into your body, and puts you in the exact state a man can actually feel.

I give it out live on the call and I cut it out of the replay, so it is yours for showing up.

MEET YOUR MENTOR

Shilpa Cacho

Love & Intimacy Mentor

I went from signing my divorce papers to marrying the love of my life 19 months later.

What changed was one conversation. I said what was true, from a body that believed it all the way down. He said “I’m in.” We were married nine months later.

Now I help high achieving women create the kind of love that feels as extraordinary as the life they have worked so hard to build.

My background is in psychology, occupational therapy, nervous system work, somatic healing, feminine embodiment and relationship coaching, so my work goes deeper than dating strategies and communication scripts. I help women uncover the patterns shaping how they love, communicate, choose partners, and allow themselves to be fully seen.

Through my Soul Talk Method I teach women to communicate in a way that creates emotional intimacy, inspires devotion, and keeps them rooted in their worth.

You should never have to choose between the powerful, successful woman you have become and the deeply loved, cherished woman you want to be.

I am also a wife, a mother, and the creator of coaching programs and in person experiences for women around the world.

"Before, I was always trying to be chosen. Now I am an actual active participant in dating."

Miriam

She was about to end things with a man who had gone vague and distant. One grounded conversation later, they went from barely talking to speaking every single day. He told her, “You are a completely different person.”

"He does not turn it around on me and make me the problem."

Reshma

Married more than 20 years and had never dated as an adult. She went on back to back dates, three and four in a single week, and is now with a man who takes care of her.

"I should be able to rise to your example."

What he texted back

What a man wrote back to a client who calmly asked for clarity after months of not knowing where she stood.

“But I have already tried everything, so why would this work for me?”

If you have done the therapy, read the books, listened to the podcasts and tried the dating advice, and you are still attracting the same emotionally unavailable men, this is the class to be on.

I am going to show you the piece all of that inner work may have never taught you: how to use your healing when you are face to face with a man you deeply want.

Where will you be in six months?

Still doing the work and hoping it translates. Or with the man who loves all of you.
Friday, September 11 · 10am Central / 11am Eastern / 8am Pacific

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